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A Report on the 9th Annual Conference and Lecture of Ibusa Singles’ Meet (ISM)


A Report on the 9th Annual Conference and Lecture of Ibus
a Singles’ Meet (ISM)

Theme: “Ife Umuaka Ibusa Som”

The Sub Theme: Promoting healthy relationships that may lead to marriage among singles

Venue: Santa Maria Schools, 30 Owukori Crescent, Alaka Estate, Surulere, Lagos.

Date: 16th November, 2019

Report by
Tony Adigwe, Vivian Uchunor & Vincent Okeleke
A Report on the 9th Annual Conference and Lecture of Ibusa Singles’ Meet (ISM) under the distinguished Chairmanship of Sir Tony Oraegbu (Editor-in-Chief, Agogo Ibusa Newspaper).

Preamble
The 9th Annual Conference and lecture of ISM tagged “Ife Ibusa Som” was held on November 16th, 2019. It was a special day in the life of Ibusa youths, resident in Lagos as the highly anticipated 2019 Igbuzo Singles Meet Conference took place. All hands had been on deck as Lagos zone were hosting the debut event outside Ibusa and expectations were heightened as to the level of readiness for the President and Convener as well as members especially Lagos residents to have it outside the community.
The Chairman of the occasion was Sir Tony Oraegbu Editor-in-Chief, Agogo Ibusa ably represented by his dear wife; Lady Euphemia Oraegbu, the Host was Elder Emeka Esogbue ably supported by his wife; Mrs. Lilian Elochukwu Esogbue. The Father of the Day was Mr Joseph Odibe while the Mother of the Day was Mrs. Nneka Edith Obiechie.  The keynote speakers were Mrs. Uche Uchidiunor Amatokwu, Managing Director of Gibraltar Properties and Pastor Emmanuel Watson General Overseer of The Overcomer Glorious Outreach Ministry. 
The Conference commenced with registration of participants and other special guests. 
The stage was then graced by Mr. Patrick and Joyce Esedebe as the Masters of Ceremony (MCs). 

Breaking of Kola
The breaking of Kola was done by the Father of the Day, Mr. Joseph Odibe.

Chairman’s Opening Remark.
The Chairman of the occasion who was ably represented by his wife, Lady Euphemia Oraegbu, expressed excitement at the gathering of Ibusa Singles with the essence of promoting healthy relationships that may lead to marriage among singles, provide conducive environment to foster effective networking among Ibusa singles as well as learn the customs and edicts of the Community. The chairman further praised the association to have grown to be the most exciting youth group in Ibusa following its achievements so far.

Welcome Address by the Host; Elder Emeka Esogbue
There was a brief profiling of the Host, Elder Emeka Esogbue an illustrious son of Ibusa. He is a profound Historian and Author with several publications on the history and culture of the Anioma people; he is a writer and the Editor-At-Large of Integrity Watchdog International Magazine and also the Research Editor of Anioma Essence Magazine.
He began his speech with a brief introduction about the association and his goals and vision at birthing the group. He proceeded to give the Welcome Address which saw him appeal to capable Ibusa men and women to take Ibusa youth affairs with all seriousness. He noted that despite the big names in the community, the people have not done enough to selflessly support non-political groups that have to do with the community especially groups with youth affiliation, warning that lack of empowerment of the youths can negatively affect the future of the community. 
The historian singled out Chief Amaechi Nwaenie, the Uwolo of Ibusa as contributing to the hosting of this year's event. He noted that responding to invitations to non-political gatherings of social importance to the youths is now a major challenge to those working to enhance youth development socially. He thanked Mr. Kelvin Njideaka who offered the use of the venue for the conference.
Worthy of note in his address is;
  • The vision to encourage and support Ibusa to Ibusa marriages which has recorded a few successful marriages between members of Ibusa Singles Meet.



1st Lecture: Ibusa to Ibusa Marriage: A Testimony of our Cultural Strength and Unity
Lecturer: Mrs. Uche Uchediunor Amatokwu
The Lecture was delivered exquisitely by the lecturer who was graceful and comical in drilling the topic whilst relating it to her experiences. The lecture covered the meaning of Marriage and its Origin in the Bible. She listed the benefits of Intra-ethnic marriages which include:
  1. Promoting unity and harmony
  2. Strengthens relationship between two families
  3. Ensures better communication between the couple.
  4. Enhancing cultural transfer to offspring such as customs, language without any challenges
  5. Similarity of values and ideals aid in knowing integral details of the family from whence one makes a choice.
Additionally, intra-ethnic marriage is a win-win for the couple and the community thus sustaining our cultural heritage and ideals.

Lecture 2: Going into marriage according to God’s Laws and Command.
Lecturer: Pastor Emmanuel Watson of The Overcomer Glorious Faith Outreach Ministry
Pastor Emmanuel quoted his reference Bible verse from Proverbs 18:22. His major points on the topic are as follows:
  • Any relationship you manage can damage you
  • A large percentage of your success is connected to whom you marry
  • Seeking demands time, energy, patience and diligence
  • Add prayer to the activities to settle the matter of seeking and seek Godly counsel
  • A corrupt ear brings forth corrupt dreams
  • A shattered home can lead to a shattered life
  • Marriage is a fixed deposit

Stage Performance
Ayaya Mog, an illustrious son of Ibusa delivered an entertaining live performance while ISM members filled the dance floor afterwards to dance to Ibusa music.

Book Review
Book Title: A HISTORY OF IBUSA: ORIGIN, SETTLEMENT AND DEVELOPMENT OF A PEOPLE LIVING ALONG THE ROAD.
AUTHOR: Elder Emeka Esogbue
This was gracefully handled by Dr. Olukayode Akinrolabu of the Lagos State University who told the gathering that although he was unable to predetermine his birth place, he found his missing rib in Ibusa. 
According to him, History was fast becoming extinct with very little attention given in schools and available channels of media. As a result, it becomes a laudable feat when an Individual takes it upon himself to research and verify historical facts about a people especially his own community.
He emphasised on the natural beauty of Ibusa being surrounded by aquatic splendour namely Oboshi, Atakpo, Asiama and several others. He stated that the history of Ibusans dates back to 4000BC with records of Anioma movements whilst living amongst people different ethnic groups and fostering healthy trade relationships.
In addition, Dr. Henry Obi Ajumeze, of the Theatre History, Centre of African Studies, University of Cape Town, South Africa praised the host for his commitment and dexterity at delivering a laudable project through the Book. He mentioned that the book was meticulously written to document facts about the history of the Ibusa people coupled with current activities of the people. He advised all Ibusa sons and daughters to have a copy of the book in their libraries.



Unveiling of the Book
Amidst the excitement, the baton of responsibility for unveiling the book was handed to the Special Guest of Honour, Chief Mrs. Rosemary Ikolodo who attested to standing in for Professor Austin Uwandulu, a former Director with the National Population Commission and a scholar. She unveiled it and opened the floor amidst several other donations from the esteemed guests. 
The book sales also occurred with many participants scouting to have a copy of the rich work.

Awards
ISM conferred Distinguished Service Awards to the following members:
  1. Francis Elueze – ISM PIONEERING MEMBER AWARD
  2. Marrie Odiwe - ISM PIONEERING MEMBER AWARD
  3. Florence Agokei – ISM SPECIAL AWARD
  4. Catherine Jacob-Mordi – ISM SPECIAL AWARD
  5. Anthony Morha – HEAD OF DEPARTMENT OPF THE YEAR

Crowning of Mr and Miss ISM 2019 
Mr Kester Mejulu and Miss Anthonia Okeleke were crowned the Mr & Miss ISM 2019.
These were followed by prayers for the duo by well-wishes.

Special Message from Professor Austin Uwandulu delivered by Mrs. Rosemary Ikolodo
  • He desires a graduate from every Ibusa home and encourages that they press on to become PhD holders
  • He stands with and by the youths; pleads that they should not relax on their oars.
  • Encourages that Ibusa natives should aspire to study and not relent even till the age of 80.

Appreciation
On behalf of the entire membership of Ibusa Singles’ Meet, the president and coordinator of the 2019 ISM conference express their heartfelt gratitude to all who found time out their busy schedule to grace the occasion. 

Conclusion
The conference was well attended by Ibusa participants and friends of the community. It was rich with Ibusa songs, greetings and smiles from the delighted guests and participants.



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