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A Forgotten Beauty: The Bittersweet Story of Helen Anyamaefuna, Miss Nigeria 1958 from Anioma

 A Forgotten Beauty: The Bittersweet Story of Helen Anyamaefuna, Miss Nigeria 1958 from Anioma


By Emeka Esogbue



The poignant story of Helen Anyaemeluna, Anioma's Miss Nigeria 1958, continues to resonate with many. Her life's journey was a rollercoaster of triumph and lack of help. Crowned Miss Nigeria at just 21, the second Nigerian to be so recognized after Miss Grace Oyelude in 1957. Helen's elegance and beauty captivated the nation. 


As a symbol of Anioma's rich human capital, Helen Anyamaefuna who hailed from the Anioma community of Ugbodu, was a motivation to many with her pet projects and dedication to service after her emergence.


However, life took a dramatic turn when illness struck, confining her to a wheelchair and stripping her of her radiance. Despite her past contributions, Helen was left to struggle, seeking help from the nation she once served and NGOs. Sadly, her pleas were met with indifference, leading to a heartbreaking conclusion in 2012 when she gave up the ghost at 75.


Helen's story serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of supporting and investing in individuals who have contributed to the growth and development of their communities; the Anioma people especially. Rather than solely focusing on posthumous tributes, setting up burial committees, raising and donating huge money as we now see in our people, it is essential to recognize and uplift those who are still making a difference. 


By doing so, we can create a more meaningful impact and ensure that the efforts of individuals like Helen Anyaemeluna are valued and supported throughout their lives.


No one can imagine greeting his Anioma brother with Ojeogwu, Ede or Ajie and the salutation is returned with "good morning." Why Anioma people prefer to patronize others is a matter for another day. 


Many talented Anioma individuals have made a name for themselves globally, but their impacts are often felt outside their homelands because they are hardly sighted in their hometowns. It is essential to sometimes visit home to make a difference. Charity begins at home after all. Our people should also support the people who are working for our communities and region. This is one area the Yorubas scored high points and should be emulated. 


Helen Anyamaefuna's legacy serves as a reminder of the importance of prioritising human support and investment. Your home is your home.


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